Advice for Young Ladies; If you don't want sex, don't enter into a Relationship

(Stop deceiving yourself; women
especially)
There's no relationship without sex
contrary to what so many people have
been made to believe especially the
young
(females). So many people have sited
the
fact that some people have succeeded
in it
but I say to you that few people have
succeeded in it, this might sound
strange
to you but it's the truth.
"if you don't want sex don't be in a
relationship"
Some people will buy into this idea but
still
question the rationale behind it; some
people might say they've seen it
happen in
the course of reading this but has it
really
happened?.
Let's break it down:
Sex can mean any of this kissing,
m*st*u*r*b*a*tion, mutual
m*st*u*r*b*a*tion, finger
f**king, fore-play, non-penetrative s*x,
v*g*nal s*x, anal s*x…
Now ask yourself can you be in an
intimate
relationship without engaging in any of
that?
If you say yes, then it means you are
not
in an intimate relationship because the
love you have for your partner will
cause
you to have feelings which brings
about
intimacy.
"Just because you're not having
penetrative s*x does not mean you are
not having s*x"
You need to have s*x to commit
fornication the act of committing
fornication isn't until you have
penetrative
s*x or any of those form of sex
mentioned
earlier I think Christians will agree with
me
that all it takes to commit fornication is
for
you to look and lust in your heart which
means mere looking and lusting in your
heart shows you've had sex within you.
Now again ask yourself is it possible to
be
in an intimate relationship without
lusting
after your partner in your heart the
answer
is no. So if you don't want to have s*x
in a
relationship don't be in one.
Saying you and your partner have both
agreed not to have s*x in your
relationship
does not make sense it only shows how
misinformed you have.
Remember just because you are not
having
"penetrative s*x" in your relationship
doesn't mean you are not indulging in
other form of s*x. However there's the
courtship stage you don't have to be in
a
boyfriend and girlfriend relationship to
get
to the courtship stage so rather opt for
that option.
So ladies if you keep on going on
picking
and dumping guys because they asked
for
s*x, you are wasting your own little
time, if
you are not ready don't engage in any
r/
ship, stopping wasting that guy's time.
Imagine the guy dates you when you
are at
the age of 18 years but you keep on
telling
him to wait till marriage and you are
expecting marriage at 26, 27 or 28
years.
But on top of that you want him to be
showering you with gifts, he takes you
out,
on tours, dinners and any more sort of
care… you want him pay your tuition,
seriously you want him spend on you
like
his a billionaire, you want him treat you
like a daughter of the king/queen…!
When
he doesn't do so you start skipping to
eat
and crying that he doesn't truly love
you,
you start suspecting that maybe he is
seeing someone else, then you finally
say
he never truly loved u, you get
heartbroken and start admiring other
happy couples, within a short period of
time you heart mends up again, you
give it
to that other new guy, you find him
more
worse than the EX, then u also dump
him
and start saying that all guys are the
same
as if you're the one who produced
them or
you have tried dating the whole world
Seriously how long will that last? Will u
go
on exploring the whole world that u are
looking for a guy who doesn't like s*x?
Think of the time u are going to be
wasting. You are growing old as your
friends are getting married. You keep
on
waiting and searching for that right guy
(who doesn't want/demand you s*x)
but
will you get him? Dear girls, you might
end
up searching forever because God
might
send u a right guy but you dumped
him
because at one time he asked for s*x.
Ladies style up, stop telling that guy
you
love him when you are to make him
suffer
till the right time you will feel that you
are
ready. And guys don't love someone
for
S*X. s*x is a by the way in a
relationship,
it's just something for a slight fun, it's
just
for good health and it should be
protected.
Don't make it a job to be done every
after
2 days, a week or two weeks. Be
focused
and seriously love that girl. Don't make
her
a sex machine.
Please get me right am not saying that
s*x
is love but no guy who will love you for
years and years till any age you want
without asking for s*x one day. If they
are
their then they are few.
I repeat it "Don't fall in love again or
waste
that guy's time if you are not read to
sustain everything, don't drain his
wallet,
don't complain that he is not showering
you with the gifts, not taking you out….
When you can't do the necessary,
rather
stay single and keep you hearts till
judgment day"
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